Category: Blog

  • 024 Cutting Wires From My Tree

    024 Cutting Wires From My Tree

    My Brass Tacks chat with Veronica A Perez was a gift last Friday. It was a calm chance to make sense of a week in which my spirit and memory were bombarded by misogyny, violence, pain – from Cosby…

  • 023 Why I HATE(d) Discipline

    023 Why I HATE(d) Discipline

    First off, my mother raised me to never indiscriminately use the word hate (thanks, mom) – so when I say I hated discipline, it’s real. Here’s the story I had told myself: My ability to be disciplined had…

  • 022 Sh*tTalkers

    022 Sh*tTalkers

    One of the most insidious ways systemic discrimination replicates itself is through intentional and unintentional sh*ttalking. We use gossip and “gut feelings” to police and control others who challenge the status…

  • 021 I Need To Ask Forgiveness

    021 I Need To Ask Forgiveness

    TLDR: Something inside of me knows I can’t be free if I can’t forgive – and yet….. I don’t. I look inside of myself and see a pile of rocks that feel infinitely heavy and far too hard to move. I stand there, frozen…